I stopped self-hosting stuff that’s for the family. In case something happens to me, no way my wife is going to keep this stuff running. And the kids are too young. So they would lose everything.

Family stuff goes in managed solutions (like Proton). Personal and public stuff is selfhosted.

Just something to consider.

This is for the Lemmy.World server (just the physical box, not the related VMs). Around 12TB last month.

I do host some stuff myself 😉 but there’s one thing to keep in mind.

Don’t self host stuff that your family still needs after you’re gone. Unless they are self host nerds like you. I stopped self hosting our mail and docs for example.

Would you agree?

I did register writefreely.world planning to host that one day, but I need some more selfhosting nerds to help out running all these instances :-) The foundation is now already running a few dozen Fedi instances :-D

(I’ll add links / descriptions later)

I host the following fediverse stuff:

• Lemmy (you’re looking at it)
• Mastodon (3 instances)
• Calckey oh sorry, now FireFish
• Pixelfed
• Misskey
• Writefreely
• Funkwhale
• Akkoma (2 instances)
• Peertube

And these are other things I host:

• Kimai2
• Matrix/Synapse
• Silver Bullet
• XWiki (3 instances)
• Cryptpad (2 instances)
• Gitea
• Grafana
• Hedgedoc
• Minecraft
• Nextcloud
• Nginx Proxy Manager
• Paperless-ngx
• TheLounge
• Vaultwarden
• Zabbix
• Zammad

Anything that the family uses. Because when I cease to exist, my wife isn’t gonna take over self-hosting! So e-mail, chat, documents etc.

All on Hetzner.

I host:

Fedi servers

• lemmy.world
• mastodon.world
• calckey.world
• pool.social
• musicworld.social
• akkoma.nl
• ruud.social
• fotofed.nl
• fediland.nl
• blog.mastodon.world
• play-my.video

Software I use

• Nginx Proxy Manager
• Portainer
• Kimai
• Xwiki (3 of them)
• Cryptpad
• Grafana
• Hedgedoc
• Matrix/Synapse
• Thelounge
• Vaultwarden
• Gitea
• Nextcloud
• Paperless-ngx
• Zabbix
• Zammad

Probably forgot some…